So today i open up my magazine to discover every girls worst nightmare and every guys hero:
"I have 15 girlfriends." Yes, this cheating rat is juggling 15 girlfriends spending £10,000 a year on dates alone. Imagine what we could buy for that; those shoes you've been window shopping for the last month, that dress that hugs you in all the right places, or even a million posters of Zac Efron that you could cover your walls with so not matter where you are in the room you never have to be deprived of his beauty...mmmm...so yeah, 15 girlfriends? what happened to monogamy? People spend their entire lives searching for their soulmate, for that one person that you can be entirely yourself in front of, and here he is, mr 'i'm not happy with just one lady' taking these girls for granted. It was then that it made me think about second chances. What would happen if he got caught out? With his pants around his ankles when he's supposed to be out for dinner with Katy, or is it Sarah? Would these girls give him a second chance? believe he is going to change? Most probably, yes. Every girl wants to be THAT girl who can change THAT guy. We like the chase as much as they do....
Everyone deserves a second chance. We all make mistakes. Nobody's perfect, imperfections are what define us from one another. We can all forgive, but should we forget? All of us are guilty of being naive in our lives, even if some more than others, and we are all guilty of questioning trust. But what is trust in a world full of ignorance and negativity? I'm the first to admitt i have trust issues. I have realised that being betrayed by your friends is the worst feeling in the world, yet why does my naivety still shine through? There's a difference between good people who do bad things, and bad people that do bad things, yet still a simple sorry is all i ask for...
Love isn't a maybe thing, so why do we throw those four letters around so much? Because of everything mentioned above. Insecurity, Naivety, mistakes, perfection and imperfection.
So maybe everyone does deserve a second chance, but what about a third?
Much Love, Is xoxo
Thursday, 7 May 2009
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